well my good evening has gone totally to shit. i just found out a very dear friend of mine from home just found out he has testicular cancer. they caught it early and he should make full recovery, but holy shit. he's only 30. he's been just down the hill in the hospital for the last week but didnt want to tell anyone bc he didnt want to inconvenience anyone. and that just breaks my heart. so i'll be spending a lot of evenings visitin him and barb and the babies at the hospital in the upcoming weeks.

why cant everyone just be happy and healthy? is that really too much to ask??